Thursday, December 20, 2012

Lights







Look for the light and follow it, they say.
Lights come in various forms and dimension. 
Some are dim and pleasing to the eye. 
Others are blinding and promises the world.


If you are looking out for light, which do you follow?
Follow your instincts. Close your eyes and listen to your heart.
Not every ray is your destiny. Some are concealed lies. They do not last.
They come to entice you with their beauty. But it fades away.




For Christmas Dinner


With a bra!


Friday, December 14, 2012

Be Happy!


Have a lovely weekend !



Up, Down, Left, Right

Major update, I haven't written in a while. Sorry for the absence.

Well, I'm adjusting to a new job. A whole new scope to dive into. Makes me feel jittery sometimes. So excited to learn about new things. Things- I can conquer. They are usually methodical and don't require much effort once you perfect the steps and procedures.

Human beings on the other hand, is the ultimate challenge. So far in these few weeks, I have been thoroughly disappointed. But hey, each career comes with different set of challenges. I know that for sure. Let's just put it this way, now I really understand the generation gap. As we all progress, into the century, yes time has change. But then why does it feel like time is the only thing that is changing or has changed. The old methods are still maintained. Where seniority matters, and only bosses are right. I can't help but ponder at this weird situation I am placed in.

I'm quite modern, I think. I find it difficult to work hand in hand with people whom I can't see eye to eye with. I mean these are successful businessmen, how can they, who are so far-sighted, be so short-sighted at the same time?

I have been told to adapt. I could, but I will choose not to. I'm quite good with adaptations, but not to bad methods which is not so applicable anymore.

I have been reading Good Boss Bad Boss, in preparation to lead my people better. It has taught me alot. This is book is 'placed' in my office, however i wonder if anyone touched it as the pages smells of a brand new book. Am I expectating too much here? For a well-mannered, fine-tempered, not so emotional boss - note that I'm a lady. And if I can say that a man is too emotional. He is almost close to zero emotional intelligience.

At the end of the day. We choose our own challenges. Do I want to choose this challenge. Would it help me increase my patience level? In a good way or bad way. What can I gain from this? Experience is the only thing we gain when we don't get what we want.

Am i going to be happy here. Too fast to judge. Nonetheless, I am still excited to go to work. Each day i learn something new from every dimension of life - like a rubber band. The more I see, listen, learn and feel the more season I become. And I really like that.

Well like today, I learnt, that, everyone could be a boss. But not everyone is a good boss.

xoxo
Cheers lovelies!