Why Don't You?

"Stay hungry,

Stay foolish."  

                                                                -Steve Jobs

Happiness is..

1. Playing in the rain.
2. Travelling and exploring.
3. Dancing like how i like it.
4. Reading a heart-stirring book.
5. Cooking for love ones.
6. Awesome movies.
7. Lovely music for the soul.
8. A shared chocolate cake or ice-cream.
9. Good and fattening food. Always.
10. Not bothered of what others think of me.
11. New shoes.
12. Feeling the wind in my face.
13. Sloppy kisses from my dog.
14. Red tulips.
15. Bubble baths. 

Work coming at me as soon 

as I get into the office today.

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When I can't answer the question paper.

Wishlist

I read the reviews. I think it's gonna be a good one. If you are thinking what to get me something. Why not get me this book? It doesn't have to wait till Christmas! ;)

Happy Weekend!

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Feeling glad.

Absolutely honest and frank write up about dating. And super funny.

This kind of video always stirs up something in me.

Dynamic duo always make me feel so glad. awesome playlist.

Phenomenal performance !!

Cant wait for this.

Watch this - spot on and hilarious.

Breathtaking architecture.

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Question.

Do we really grow up?

Or 

Do we just grow old..

Stuck in my head.

Is Good Enough?

When he buys me something i like, i get all jumpy. If he suggest we go have our favorite ice-cream i will almost jump for joy, and i will jump if there's sprinkles on it. If he makes me breakfast, I will just sit and marvel at his face...... Worldly things, nice once in a while, but not sufficient for me.

Define good. What does it even mean to you. When he knows his way to your heart? Or knows how to love you, in simple words - ignore you and just go with the flow when you're being crazy. 

Is good enough. Question Mark. 

Allow me to be honest with you. No woman should desire to have a "good" man. I desire, a broken-hearted man, a changed man. For some, a "good" man could mean he says nice things, gives her gifts and appreciates her family. However, I desire a man who is willing to pray with me and for me, lay down his life constantly for me, and give up any worldly enjoyments he may have and become uncomfortable for my comforts. I desire a man to make my way easy and take on the burden that may be placed on my shoulders. Its should not be enough that he is "good". 

That should never be enough. Don't ever settle for less.

But breakfast for me is .... fireworks in my heart.

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A shoutout A whisper

How are you doing? Sorry for the lack of updates. I have been so busy lately with ... absolutely nothing. :)

Things have been going pretty well for me. How are you holding up? 

I have been travelling back and forth between KL and SG, spending precious time with loved ones. Everyone seems to want a piece of me. And it's so difficult to multitask between all these beautiful souls. But isn't that what life is all about, prioritizing important people and things. But it's so difficult to choose who to spend my time with, and so difficult to let everyone get a piece of me because its time consuming and energy draining. I've learnt to just go with it anyway because time never stops running. I have been saying 'no time, no time' to alot of precious people and the more times i utter those words the more disgusted i feel with myself.

So no more 'no time', just better time planning. But sometimes i really don't have the time. Like what i'm doing to this blog. 

Something to think about:

I can't help but notice how most young parents teach their toddlers or control them. Using the one thing that is not right. Terror. I'm not a parent and i don't know how difficult it is, but i know enough that i can't handle one right now. I think using terror is not right. Honestly i think authority and power comes from firmness and properly assertion, definitely not from yelling or terrorizing the kid with the cane. Heard of the 'tiger mom' book? Read it. Interesting but not for me. 

Soon i'll be put in a place where i have to exert firmness and proper assertion. I have so much to learn still, being a leader is no joke. No doubt i know i can do it, but the learning curve is going to be so steep. You can expect nothing, not even white noise from this blog.

But till then, take care. And with much love. Have a wonderful wonderful day..

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The pen is mightier than the sword.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Ever felt smaller than a word used to describe you? Most probably all of us have. Felt inferior to the adjectives people use to label us.

 

If you are a wise person, you will definitely know the power of words and how it can help to shape and mould a person's persona,character, his mentality, and of course his future. You have no idea, how good it feels to encourage and to be the positive spark in someone's life.

 

Always choose to uphold somebody with kind words. It doesn't cost a thing.

 

 

 

Why don't you

 

 

 

 

 

 

Forget the past. Forget your age. 

Today is the first day of the rest of your life. 

At the end of it,

let there be no excuses, no explanations, and no regrets.

 

 

 

 

 

Speaks Volume



Act 2 of La Traviata

Patrick Kinmonth

Splendour and Grandeur

 

 

 

 

Uber Cute!

 

 

 

 

 

 

Right-brain VS left-brain.

"One is loved because one is loved. No reason is needed for loving." - Paulo Coelho



I was just pondering about the quote above. I it made me stop and think for a bit.

Emotions right, because you feel like it.. so no real reason behind what you're feeling or you want to do. If you want to love, you love. Because you can. Or is it just because we are utilising the 'right-brain' more... which is said to be more intuitive,thoughtful and subjective?

I can relate to that, answering to all the jitters love has to offer.

But my left-brain tells me the quote above is just good writing. To create a stir of emotions in the heart. Just being melancholic and nostalgic.

Why do you love?
Because you can? Because you are infactuated with the persona? Because you are feeling lonely? Or because the time has come. Not everyone is for this journey. Love is a big word.

What is love anyway? How would you describe it? Is it that feeling that you wake up everyday knowing you have someone who cares about you? Is it kisses and hugs? Is it walking hand-in-hand?
Or a shared piece of cheese cake?
Or you could look at it this way. Its hardcore commitment - mentally,emotionally, physically. Maybe just plain sacrifice. Perhaps gratitude. Or you love because the other party makes you feel safe. Or you love because you want a witness to your life.
Love is a big word. Sometimes overwhelming.

There you go, for trying to explain love. I'm a fool. I'm a well centered-brain person. Guess where all the wisdom came from?


"The wise are wise only because they love. The fool are fools only because they think they can understand love." - Paulo Coelho.