Of work, play and love!

Was sup peeps! I have been utterly over-worked and busy, not to mention exhausted. I have absolutely no time to pen down my thoughts. Ok. So here is what i did for the past two weeks.

Work, work and more work. And no sleep. Sad - i know.
But in between i had an awesome weekend with my close buddies ( i dont have a picture for that ) and i attended a close friends' wedding. They have been dating for 10 years!! and they got married on their 10h anniversary. It was a beautiful wedding - i always get emotional at weddings! And the night reception was a blast! I manage to get some pictures. Feast your eyes!

The lovebirds!

 

 Singing off with a bang! 

So much love for you guys!

Have a great week. :)

Girls just want to have fun... =D

How to be ...

 A Good Friend.

Anything that ends with "ships" are hard. Honestly if you ask me, what is the highest maintenance thing in the world, it would be friendships. I have quite a number of friends, but real genuine friends are really hard to come by.

I have yet to find a good girl friend ( besides my beloved sister ), namely because i am not the typical girl - just not the typical girl, and i find it hard to fit in conversations or outings with these girls, so i join the dudes. Guys are way easier to mingle around with, but the downside is that they can be/ are really insensitive at times.

I hope i would find my girlfriends someday, i can't wait to hangout at coffee shops, and talk about dresses, have luncheons together and party together!! But we all know friendships is way more than that. And when do we put in effort, or walk out from one. I sometimes find it too hard, because most of the time, i find myself valuing the friendship at a 8/10 but to the other party, it is almost insignificant.

I do have close friends, but i never came across that one person who knows me inside out (except my sister)!

However, until the day comes i meet you girlies, here are a few ways to be a really good friend.

1) You should never ever make comparisons among yourselves, creating competition between the two of you is a no-no. 

2) Sometimes, it is really normal to feel envious ( in a good way ), but never jealous. Savour it and let it go.

3) You have to be genuinely happy for your best friend ( in terms of her success, her happiness, etc), no matter how unfair you feel about the situation is.

For eg, if you have to save for 5 years for a down payment and her dad buys her a car..  You might feel that she doesn't deserve it at all, but who are we to say what each individuals deserve?

4) Make sure it is two ways. You both value each other equally. If she is there for you and has given the best that she can, so should you. Be sensitive to each others feelings, generally, do what you want others to do onto you and you won't go wrong.

5) Never take pleasure in the misfortunes of others

 ( Schadenfreude ) 

A feeling which we all experience from time to time, and we know it doesn't feel great. Let it go, would youd want your bestie to be dancing inside when she sees you heartbroken? Most certainly not.

Well, well, be a good friend, a good soul. There is a real shortage for good friends in this world. =)
I hope i am one to ( whoever ). 

    

She and i...

As you all know, i'm a pretty awkward person, with very few close friends. However throughout my entire course in uni, i did meet someone pretty awesome. We have the same wavelength , approximately same taste in fashion and clothes, almost as crazy as me. I'm so grateful for a girl friend like that, when i'm surrounded by a sea  of testosterone on a daily basis.

Off she goes to U.S to do her masters. =)  Hope you rock U.S girl!!! I will too soon!!!

P/s : I have been having massive headaches these past few days and i'm not spare from it today.
Hopefully my Monday won't be filled with people who will aggravate my already thudding head.
Happy Monday to you!! =) Till then.. byeeeeeeeeeee

An inch away

  Graduation pictures taken!!! One step closer to reality.

What a GREAT monday...

After feeling a little off during the weekend, thank God for my friends who rescued me from a big black pit hole.
Owwhhh, did i mention about my test? It was open book, but nothing from the book came out!!! As usual, lecturers wouldn't give you free marks... nothing in this world is free remember???
Yea so that chapter is totally gone......

I spent most of my day and night with friends who graduated and who came back to the city for job interviews..
It was refreshing for me... so much laughter and smiles... we laugh at almost everything and anything..
Silly silly us.... and all the teasing and making fun... I really miss them...
We had lunch together, and then we caught the green lantern together.. It was a little childish kinda movie for me... but anyways, i really enjoyed the company though.

I am super exhausted today, i barely slept last night, was having a lot of nightmares lately...
And its 12:38 am and i have a 8am class tomm and i can't sleep... so i am here telling you about my day.
It was a really pleasant Mondays, i wished all of my Mondays are as such.. in fact i wished it was everyday.
Laughter filled days. =)

How was your Monday? 

Thursday night..

peeps, wassup... i still can't find my wire!!! hahhahaha

Uni just started, assignments are given out.. quizzes and tests dates are all set.
How depressing is that. Total wet blanket for me.

Anyways... my holiday in Thailand was beautiful. Scenic would be the right word to describe my holiday. and not forgetting the word, Burnt. hahahahha.. Thailand was just a break that i really needed, this time i went with 11 of my friends, it was just fun, fun, fun.. i stole some pictures from my friends.. hehe. enjoy!!

Revenge...

Do you have people you don't feel fine being around with? Those who are not so nice, and don't brighten up your day? I stay as far away as possible. At the heat of moment, i really dislike them, but eventually i would just get over people like this, and tell myself they don't deserve anything from me- not even my emotions.

So i vow that if there is a chance to make them feel however they make me felt, i would at any chance.
But you know what, when that moment comes, that very chance i could hurt them so much, i cannot do it.
Can never bring myself to do it. If a person hurt me, and no matter how bitter and sad i am about it, i could never bring myself to hurt them back, in any way.

The other day, i saw one of my friend- so called friend. Define a friend. Well, a friend is a friend. What makes the difference is a good friend and a bad one. So i saw him behaving weirdly.. stressed maybe, and i saw sadness in his eyes. I wanted to walk away and pretend to not care. I did walk away. But i walked back, and asked if he was ok, so i sat down next to him and talked. He was indeed sad, and needed company. What kind of person would i be, if my friend, anyone as a matter of fact, needed a person to talk to and i turned a blind eye. What kind of unforgiving person would i be, if i hung unto the past.

But sometimes, i really can't forgive. And i dunno how and where to put my sadness. So i can start again.
So i can love the world, despite how mean they are. But i guess we bring human, are always prone to lean towards the people that just make us feel nice. But have you thought if the people you don't like, driving you to be a better person as a whole? I think so too sometimes, pushing me over the limit.

Today i feel a little alone, if i could brush off the hurt, forgive, sit down and take the initiative to care for someone who wasn't nice to me before. Why can't i meet others who are like that too.
Because when i have sadness in my eyes, no one sits beside me.

I guess i shouldn't expect anything in return.Now i remembered, God carries my burden, takes my hurt, and lays me down in green pastures.Renews me again and again.

Friends are indeed hard to find. 

2 AM.

i'm so high i can fly.
hahahhahhah

It's 2 am and ... bond pricing, rating, valuation and concepts and bruno mars are all mixed up in my head.

I'm just taking a break from all the boring boring pages, i mean the facts are all interesting.
I honestly think the best part of my course is about the financial market. But the narrating skills....
Gosh, it's like my grand-dad talking to me.

I have something happy to tell you all. I am going to my friend's engagement party next month.
Both the girl and guy are my friends, and they have been dating for 10 years. since, 16!!!
And i am so excited, and i am so happy for them!!! Awwwww.....

When he proposed to her, she was so shocked and she starting crying!!!
I wasn't there, but there's a video, but i can't find it now. haha.

I'm sucker for all these lovey dovey stuffs!!! =D
Okies, back to text book!!! Good night people!!

Ohh Laa Laa

I just remembered that i promised to post pictures of my friends!!! Here you gooooooooo...

Of friends and smiles.. =)

I've never really talked about my friends, my good friends. 

The end of uni phase is fast approaching. This is it, i won't be seeing them everyday.

I will miss them terribly. Most of my friends are guy, except for one girl, the sweetest girl i have ever known.

Me and my friends, we are worlds apart. I am so ... leaning toward the western side, in terms of thoughts, my character, way of carrying myself, dressing, and in terms of culture. They are more hard core Chinese. And everyday our opinions, and wants and needs clashes, but it had been a tremendous beautiful time, besides the fact that my whole university is just a - blank-. 

So many smiles, so much breathless laughters, so much hardcore laughing we get stomach cramps.

So many frustrated times when we cannot get formulas, and theories, all exchanged for encouragements and food therapies. Movies and desserts always come after test, exams, and even when one of us gets an F.

So different, worlds apart, but i would say that, these are the friends, whom are worth keeping.

( If you follow my blogs, i have blogged about a few bad friends ).

In my whole journey, i have never felt any difference between a man and woman. We are all very equal.

I have never been put down, nor have i been judged. I have never came across a rude remark or comment from these guys. Its so pleasant i want to cringe just at the thought that i might not be seeing them as often.

There's no competition amongst us. Even the rich and poor are same.

How beautiful is that. It's pure friendship. 

I will post some pictures soon!!

Fly Awayyyyy

Yesterday my friends and i went for this great adventure.
We headed down to Shah Alam, Taman Pertanian. It's basically a jungle made into a park, filled with fun pack activities. About 23 of us participated in a circuit game consisting of flying fox, walking in nets, balancing act, all up in the air..  [ Check it out yourself http://www.skytrex-adventure.com/contact.php].
While a few others preferred to just cycle around the park.. Bike were for rent for a starting rate for RM3, and RM1 every subsequent hour.

Initially i was a little scared because its about 17m up in the air... but eventually i got over it and it was so much fun... we didn't take much photos while playing because we all were so focused on trying to not fall off anything... So we only took photos after completing the circuit.. =)

All of those who played the games.

Having dinner after the games =)

I had so much funnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn =D WWWEeeeeeeeee