Do you know yourself well enough? If yes, how much. And if you do, i am sure your life is 90% in control and we leave the 10% out for the things that are out of control. Meaning to say, you know what makes you happy, you know what you want and what to expect from what you sowed. You know whom make the best out of you and etc.
Are you an introvert or extrovert? A leader or follower, does your brain works harder on the left or right side? What characteristic do you posses? Are you an optimist or pessimist? Do you look at things with feelings or realistically?
Well, i just attended my friends wedding a few days back, and the wedding is, how would i put it? Warm, very romantic, it has the right people and the ambiance was just perfect. But there was a little something about the wedding that made me felt very uncomfortable.
Half way whilst dinner was served, the maid-of-honor and the best-man, went up the stage and played a game. This game was meant for the couple to get to know each other better. They asked questions like, who is the early bird, who washes the dishes more often, who cooks more often, who is a better cook, who is more emotional, who is the one to kiss-and-make-up, who is with the bad temper, who irons the clothes at home, who wears the pants in the relationship.
I felt uncomfortable, simply because, i feel that no matter how you portray yourself to your friends, colleagues, or sometimes family members. It is very very different, how you portray yourself with your partner. I felt that these questions were a little too personal. Well, my friends is a witty, strong-willed, passionate, opinionated girl, and from what i can see her partner is a more homey guy, who cooks more often, who irons the clothes...
As you can see, there is a clash of personality- and isn't it great these two very different people are coming together in the name of love??
So how do would you label yourself? does is equate to how people see you?
How would you label me?
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