Make me happy and i will love you back.
Love me and i will love you back.
But when it gets hard, i will break up with you.
Is that love? What is love? Nowadays, people love with conditions. Its hard to find someone
who loves unconditionally anymore. And it is costing us, all of us alot- the rising divorce rates.
And i feel sometimes i do practice conditional loving, because of my ego, selfishness and my pride.
But that happens rarely- maybe with my parents *ahhahhahahha* because they still treat me like a child,
and sometimes its really sweet but its also frustrating at the same time... because i wanna explore
and reach out to the unreached- and it is often dampen.
So yea, what exactly is unconditional love?
When you fall in love with a person, its all beautiful right? The sky is bluer than ever,
even the sea tastes sweet, the flowers suddenly blooms when you walk by.
All is good and perfect. But what happens when things are going the opposite way?
What if you guys failed to communicate, or distance are tearing you apart,
or you guys are trying to keep the flame alive. Or has the everyday stress creep up your relationship wall? Has the romance died? Or you guys are just plain tired?
Even in these situations, if you can still love the person and accept him then it is unconditional love.
You would give even if he couldn't give you back.
And he would give even if you can't give back.
Back to the simple rule : Compromise. Which most of us aren't willing to do it.
Because we all have this " I deserve better " rule. It is true if your treated unfairly and you feel bad most of the time and he doesn't work as hard as you regarding the relationship maybe its time to move on.
So where is the breaking point?
Love me and i will love you back.
But when it gets hard, i will break up with you.
Is that love? What is love? Nowadays, people love with conditions. Its hard to find someone
who loves unconditionally anymore. And it is costing us, all of us alot- the rising divorce rates.
And i feel sometimes i do practice conditional loving, because of my ego, selfishness and my pride.
But that happens rarely- maybe with my parents *ahhahhahahha* because they still treat me like a child,
and sometimes its really sweet but its also frustrating at the same time... because i wanna explore
and reach out to the unreached- and it is often dampen.
So yea, what exactly is unconditional love?
When you fall in love with a person, its all beautiful right? The sky is bluer than ever,
even the sea tastes sweet, the flowers suddenly blooms when you walk by.
All is good and perfect. But what happens when things are going the opposite way?
What if you guys failed to communicate, or distance are tearing you apart,
or you guys are trying to keep the flame alive. Or has the everyday stress creep up your relationship wall? Has the romance died? Or you guys are just plain tired?
Even in these situations, if you can still love the person and accept him then it is unconditional love.
You would give even if he couldn't give you back.
And he would give even if you can't give back.
Back to the simple rule : Compromise. Which most of us aren't willing to do it.
Because we all have this " I deserve better " rule. It is true if your treated unfairly and you feel bad most of the time and he doesn't work as hard as you regarding the relationship maybe its time to move on.
So where is the breaking point?
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