Grow up.

Today, i read and article about how A blames B for making his life suck.

It was an article full of emotions-bad emotions, blaming, and just bad attitude.

I didn't bother to finish reading the article because i know the write is immature.

Grown ups know that nothing in life is easy, it is even harder to hold ourselves accountable

for the shit that happens in our life. It is so easy to just point the finger, " because he said that, He made me angry", " because of what she did, it made me angry" . Yes no doubt other peoples action (close individual) has a certain amount of influence on you but don't blame others for what you feel. HOWEVER, sometimes there are really ass holes in this world, and you're going to meet alot of them.

What i am trying to say is that, it takes courage to be accountable to what people and we,ourselves feel. Not everyone can do that. Even adults can't do that. It does reflect your mentality. Sometimes we have to rise above people and be wiser. I'm about to say something that not many will agree with me, weak people won't agree with me. Most of the times, bad feelings is an option. IT IS! You choose to feel that certain way, and habour about it....

So is happiness-It is a state of mind. You can choose to be happy or sad and live in your sad world. Easier said than done, Sometimes i feel so down there's no way i could pull myself together. But with little baby steps. I'm getting nearer to my goal. But i have never blamed people for what i feel, unless their actions really has made things difficult for me.

Come on, grow up. 95% of human beings are not paradigmatic shifters. Be one today. Take accountable for your own actions and emotions. =)